hi..............today is my birthday....my husband wish me first,...but passed the day without doing anything special.....all day leisure time pass korechi...doing nothing, ranna....household work..janalar pashe boshe khali manush dekhechi....and one thing felt leisure time at least one day should be passed without doing anything..birthday should be selebrated....because each person is important....every birth is important...whenever i was watching people are passing .....everyone is important to his family, to his friends...everypeople has importance to their family, friends.........the people who were infront of my windows.........someone is father, son , daughter, husband or sister etc....all are having some relationship.......i dont know them but suddenly i felt lots of love and feelings for all these people....relations are so important....isn't it?
I BELIEVE...relations should maintain honesty.....trust.....believe...kintu, ata maintain kora ki always possible....i think possible...but one thing is true....relations are not remaining same..its not keeping its place in same as it was first....one of my friend shared me....after getting married she thought all she is belonging should be shared with her husband...like her all earnings, time etc....all...means all...but one time she found as she was thinking is not ok, there is something more to think about....as she shared ...her husband is not responding in the same way as she expected....he maintained the differences...that couple is having some problem in getting child...so her husband is acting like lets spend all their earnings for his own family members..., he never felt the need of asking her even...it hurts her a lot....then she started to keep her money by buying ornaments etc....the relation become changed.......lots of stories may be i will share later on....
one thing my mother told me....see there is no one in this world for you....everyone is alone....no one is actually for you...you the only one for yourself...it was her realization after passing 50years of her life........what do you think...........//????????